How To Start A Conversation And Make Friends 💎

Friendships are built on This is why it’s easier to make friends at school or work—you see the same people repeatedly.

Share a small, relatable opinion or fact. "I’m actually a bit nervous being here; I don't know many people yet." This vulnerability signals that you’re safe to talk to.

Once the conversation starts, your goal is to find "hooks"—topics the other person is excited about.

If they mention they’re tired because they were up late training their dog, don't just say "Oh, cool." Ask, "What kind of dog?" or "Is training going well?"

If you talked about a specific interest, use it as a bridge. "I’d love to hear more about those hiking trails you mentioned. Do you have Instagram or a number? We should exchange info."

The biggest hurdle is often just breaking the silence. You don’t need a witty monologue; you just need an observation.