Learn that being "nice"—which includes kindness, laughter, and vulnerability—is a position of strength, not weakness.
Focus on what you need (character, reliability, kindness) rather than what you think you should have. Why You're Not Married . . . Yet: The Straight ...
You may be lying to yourself or others about what you actually want. Learn that being "nice"—which includes kindness
Demanding specific physical traits (like height) is often a way to avoid real intimacy. and vulnerability—is a position of strength
Be upfront about your desire for marriage. Stop "playing along" with casual arrangements if you want a lifetime commitment.
McMillan argues that many women use defensiveness or anger as a shield.
Stop "playing house" or living in a fantasy mode.